I’ve been trying to migrate away from snapchat for years now because everything about it irritates me but I’ve still got like 3 stragglers for whom it is my main form of communication.

  • Razen@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Can someone explain what is snapchat for? Is ot like messaging app or a social app?

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      2 months ago

      Originally for sending dick pics and tit pics, now it’s like early Facebook where instead of poking people and throwing sheep, you send a picture with or without a filter to get a streak.

  • mfed1122@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 months ago

    I was in the same situation as you. Just message them elsewhere and delete it. Everyone who wasn’t willing to message me on a better platform turned out to not be that worth interacting with. All the real ones did what they could to keep talking to me without hesitation and respected my reasoning

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        2 months ago

        Maybe you could keep talking them on Snapchat, but also on the other platform too. Are they really just completely unwilling to get on something like signal? you don’t even need to make an account really

        • irelephant [he/him]@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          2 months ago

          The only other platform I have most of them on is tiktok, which isn’t much better.

          Everyone has whatsapp, but It’d be weird to ask for a phone number out of nowhere. All the groupchats are setup on snapchat as well, so even if I got most people on whatsapp, they’d keep organizing there.

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            2 months ago

            Or they just use one platform for communication with everyone and leaving it for just one person is a bit extra, like why do yall expect everyone to cater to you in order to be your friend

  • ORbituary@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 months ago

    I’ve still got like 3 stragglers for whom it is my main form of communication.

    Tell them you’re moving on. It’s not worth it. If they’re really your friends, you can find another way. If they don’t, they only care about the way you are on Snap. That’s hollow.

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    2 months ago

    I’ve never given Snapchat access to my contacts ever. It’s not only blocked in the app, but also on the system level. And yet I still get connection suggestions “from your contacts”. It’s infuriating

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      2 months ago

      I redownloaded Snapchat today on my degoogled phone since my friends use it all the time now and I’ve also seen that it somehow got all of my contacts. Turns out that it uploaded my contacts to their cloud without me clearly telling that when I first signed up.

      To check if your contacts are in cloud: Go to your profile > Open “Settings” by tapping the cogwheel > Under “Account Actions”, select “Contact syncing” > Tap “See contacts shared with Snapchat”. You can delete your contacts there too, I just did that. If you have an Android phone, I’d recommend you to patch your app with something like ReVanced to minimize data collection.

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      2 months ago

      TikTok did the same shit back when I used it. It’s weird because I’ve always kept my internet life separate from my personal life, and now every app is begging to show my closest friends and family my shitposts, political takes and NSFW content. I’m mostly done with traditional social media by now at this point anyway. I’ve managed to kick tiktok and am now permanently banned from reddit so hopefully I won’t get sucked back in.

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        2 months ago

        If you logged in using a phone number they’re referencing you from other people who have you in their contacts.

        If you tell them no, they just dick you from another angle

        • paranoid@lemmy.world
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          2 months ago

          This is what I thought too until I noticed the contacts listed were using the names I have for them - “apprehension”, “brazzle”, “dizzy”, “momster”, “Jared who hit me”.

          They’re not using another angle to dick people over, they’re just ignoring security preferences and blaming us for getting mad

              • VeganCheesecake@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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                2 months ago

                If you can prove that, you’d probably have a nice story on your hand. I don’t think there’s currently a known way an app can bypass system permissions for contacts on current Android/iOS.

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                  2 months ago

                  Just to follow up here, and to share what I’ve got

                  “Invite to Snapchat” from my contacts, with their specific names: "Invite to Snapchat" from my contacts, with their specific names and the permissions for Snapchat, showing contacts is not allowed: the permissions for Snapchat, showing contacts is not allowed

                  After looking at this, I set everything to “ask every time”. I also removed access to the phone app… I haven’t talked to almost anyone on that list on the phone, but I figure it couldn’t hurt to further restrict.

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    2 months ago

    Just leave. Humans were alive before Snapchat and they’ll be alive when it’s dead as well.

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    2 months ago

    I had that issue too, and contacted support! Turns out There is this guy from Swaziland, whose name happens to be Team Snapchat (you couldn’t make this shit up). So Mr. Snapchat and Team Snapchat’s accounts keep on colliding with one another… on Snapchat!