not was supposed to be included but you still got the desired impact…a laugh.

Why the (!)?..I didn’t say I was sad or lonely. 😆

My bad, I am just tired of unhelpful comments. The provided comments are no different from reddit or similar to google research. I don’t think there is a decent following of colored people on this site to draw a real world experience answer(s) to gain enough information. And it should be no surprise…I didn’t even want to do this, I just wanted to post the question and push people to think a bit more. Stupid idea. We really need AI to translate our thoughts for us, or Jesus to come back…if not that an outside entity to help us see a better way forward.

Who is doing this seeking of Asian women and white women?

Deep Breath

I respect you opinion and research.

In my opinion, simple people don’t challenge the socially acceptable and or settled for norms because in most ways of life it’s easier.

I’m looking for the tougher crowd of people to answer these questions.

Thanks for your opinion.

I take me my anger out in odd ways too. Thanks for stopping by and reminding me that I’m not perfect. I didn’t read your post and it was fun just skimming over it all together. Freedom of expression. No sweat and like you, I don’t care.

You have a semi-unique situation and circumstances. Ideally, you and your spouse are starting a new family from scratch. I love my family. I come from a family that invests into one another. When one steps, most of us steps in that direction as well. We have a touch of the American individual–Independence scattered throughout but it’s helpful with questions like the one I have presented. I was once married to a Mexican, whom I met and loved her in America. Her roots are in Mexico and her mother “hated” Black people. Her father was a man of honor and decent judgements. I was not his first son-in-law. When I stood my ground and stopped paying my then mother-in-law attention, she desired more of my attention for good and laughed a good laugh when I came around. Sooner than later the in laws had Black friends of their own.

I’m not on a mission to save or change the world, nothing like that. I am just happy my family is understanding and not racist. We’re loving and compassionate towards our community and neighbors. However, we or some of us do occasionally use the spooky myth of being the black boogeyman to scare crazy people off. 😜

Take care. Best of luck to your family.

I wish you well.

I okay with you making an opinion. I know I’m perfect. If you care to help, I would appreciate it.

The questions are: How do Black men/Asian women couples manage the pressure of conservative family views or racist stereotypes, and was it worth it?

Black men in the PNW who have dated Asian women: What is your experience with navigating cultural differences and family opposition?

Thank you for your personal perspective. I honestly agree that there is a large misrepresentation from films produced from “Hollywood” in regards to the everyday Black caucus here in America and how that rerun imaging continues to hurt the international portrayal of the Black people.

I don’t plan to visit China per say. I’m not opposed to the thought of dating a Chinese woman.

I really would like to know just how deeply ingrained in thier population is it okay to “hate” another race and especially Black people.

I’d like to know where you draw your rational from. I don’t completely doubt your view of the social progress and credit of a people in the eyes of many other’s. Just would like to know your background a bit.

Your opinion may shead some light on the topic, regardless of your skin color. Please enlighten me. I doubt I have as much experience as you? Are you located in the PNW?

I am sorry, I can’t. I’m not a woman. What I can offer is this, they are not all the same. I have dated Black women that went to college, church; job and no job; weed smoker and non weed smoking…and the black women still want to hit me. Just try not to piss them off, I suppose. I personally love a woman that can and doesn’t mind throwing hands. Be in the gym or defending her self if need be. However, if any woman raises her hand toward me I’m out.

I think a lot of movies and bad parenting or lack of parenting are the vectors as to why women feel its okay for them to assault a male and think it’s okay and not against the law. I don’t. I also dont think a male is a man if he raises his hand to a woman; without a righteous cause in the purest of action. I know we dont live in a perfect world and thus there are no perfect women nor men. So, I excuse her throwing stuff at me or slapping my chest with tears in her eye’s. If I did something wrong, talk about it and if I cross the boundary again, I dont respect you and you should leave me. As if and when she crosses that boundary, I’m leaving her.

I vented.

Thanks for the love and response.

Thanks for that great question and thanks for the responses.