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  • But…If you read the article she was actually scammed out of a bunch of money too. She even gave the promoter money to cover refunds and they just didn’t refund it. Rocksman (the promoter) is the real villain of the story.

    Conservatives always lie.

    I mean, it’s messed up all around, but I’ll at least give credit to C.Owens for trying to get people their refunds.

    Conservatives always lie

    Also I’m not exactly crying over these folks getting fleeced but holy shit it’s crazy what the promoter did and got away with and what they stole.

    C Owens is almost certainly in on the scam, but she needs to make herself the victim because conservatives always do




  • Occasionally i hear the phrase “there is no morality outside of human society”. I believe, what is meant by it, is that you cannot say whether something is morally right or wrong in nature, if it isn’t part of human society.

    More or less.

    It depends on who says it,. but the general idea is that since morality is defined by humans for humans, we cant really apply morality outside of that.

    For example, when a turtle eats a bird (here’s a video about it), you cannot say whether these deeds are “good” or “bad”. It’s part of nature, it’s part of the circle of life, … if these things didn’t happen, the bird couldn’t be alive in the first place.

    Correct.

    Now, i’ve had some interesting talks yesterday with a close friend about what “morality” really means. They very certainly assured me that morality is simply the construct and the set of rules that society uses to organize itself to make itself more successful. In other words, morality aids the fitness of the group, but not necessarily of the individual. Do you agree with this view?

    No, this is a really bad “understanding” of morality. Morality is a system of code about behavior which involves evaluative judgments about actions and the people taking them, and specifically about if a behavior is “moral” or “immoral” with “moral” generally equating to “good” and “immoral” generally to “bad”.

    To make it simpler, morality is a collective judgement about if something is “good” or “bad” based generally about how a majority of a population can be expected to react.

    And if so, would that entail that the beneficial effects to the group can overwrite the wellbeing of a single individual?

    By your friends definition, sure.

    Where do you draw the limits?

    Very very much depends on the population.

    Like if some republicans claim that some women cannot decide themselves who they are/should be in a relationship with … does that derive from that view of morality?

    Yes, because by the republican judgement, women having a choice is bad.

    When you are speaking about morality, you need to clearly define what group is making the judgement.

    What do you respond to that?

    Its pretty well known that republicans think women having a choice is bad.

    I’m seriously wondering because all these discussions make my head spin and sometimes i wonder truly whether i even know anything at all… How can you find certainty in what’s morally acceptable and what is not?

    You cant, Morality is subjective, more or less by definition. What is “good” or “bad” will always depend on who you ask.

    Some groups like to make lofty claims about how morality is for the greater good, notice how those people never seem to decide that morality decides they should sacrifice for “the greater good,” and how “the greater good” always seems to mean “what’s good for this specific in-group”


  • She… she plead guilty.

    So probably not guilty then

    So… 1, 0.99, very high likelihood.

    Trumps DOJ targeted her, and she pled guilty.

    Both of those things tell me she is very likely not guilty.

    This isn’t like an accused street criminal getting basically conned into pleading guilty because the cops planted evidence and got a false witness to make a false testimony.

    This is the known to be corrupt FBI (under trump) going after somebody who looks different, for a bogeyman crime that we know they dont actually care about.

    This is a person who would not be targeted by that kind of thing and can afford good lawyers.

    The DOJ has been very specifically targeting exactly that kind of person. And Republicans dont care about lawyers because they dont care about the law.

    She was the mayor.

    ok?









  • So I dont believe in free will ,through a combination of experience and events in my life(most to do with leaving religion) however like most, I recognise the need for the concept of free will, as artificial as it may be

    People who say this are more or less always confusing two different definitions.

    Libertarian free will, being the ability to make a choice without context is obviously impossible.

    What most people think of as free will “the ability to make a choice” is very obviously real.

    I can chose to raise my hand, I can chose to lower it.

    For example, alots people say that trauma doesn’t excuses abuse, only contextualise, it but if you have statical evidence that a large or even most of abusers have been abused/been through a traumatic event that is by defined an excuse.

    People misuse the word “excuse” a lot. Like a huge amount.

    People say “that is not an excuse” when what they mean is “that doesn’t make it ok.” or they say “I dont want excuses” when what they mean is “I am going to be mad no matter reasonable your actions are”

    Yes, abusing somebody because you are abused is an excuse (in that it explains why), its also not an excuse (in that it doesnt make it ok).

    You need to be more specific in what “excuse” means.


  • Okay I see what you’re trying to say, but calling it “Nazi propaganda” is inaccurate and confusing. Just because a Nazi said something doesn’t mean it’s Nazi propaganda. That’s just confusing.

    But if its propaganda put out by a Nazi propaganda group and parroted mostly by Nazis and Nazi supporters…then it is Nazi propaganda.

    Also, as someone who actually liked what Biden was doing a lot (specifically, his attack on monopolists/billionaires through the FTC and DOJ), I do believe he was senile. I’m not a doctor, but he showed clear signs of what many of us have seen in our own aging family members.

    “Senile” means " Relating to or having diminished cognitive function, as when memory is impaired, because of old age."

    So definitely, sure, any amount of diminished cognitive function is “Senile”

    But that’s not what people mean when they say senile. When people say “Biden was senile” they dont mean “Biden was old and his memory isnt quite as good as when he was 30” They are trying to pretend like he has dementia, and he very clearly doesnt.


  • I would vote for a cardboard cutout or actual criminal Democrat over trump, and I saw the debate, and I knew it was doom for the Biden campaign.

    yea, the double standard is real.

    But Biden was noticably confused, losing his place, forgetting what he was saying or what the question was, and returning to stock cliches.

    Hes a bad public speaker and a bad debator.

    99% of people watching would come out of it thinking “Biden seems older than he was” which is obvious on the face of it but Republicans had been laying the dementia propaganda for months and now they had “evidence”.

    Right,

    The only people who watched that debate and thought that Biden had dementia had already been guzzling the coolaid.


  • Not my kid, but my best friends, and I babysit a lot.

    Couple things you might not think about, or might overthink.

    The biggest one for me was that I kept mis-gendering the kid for like a month, but I didnt realize that how I was reacting to doing so was worse than the misgendering itself.

    Generally speaking, people understand that there is a transition period, you have thought of this person as a he or a her for their whole life, suddenly swapping pronouns isnt easy. If you get it wrong, thats ok, dont make a big production of it, just correct yourself, say sorry and try to do better.

    I was making sure to really get across that I was sorry, and eventually I got told that it was stressing the kid out, because it was now a big thing that I got it wrong.

    I learned, and they relaxed a lot when the next time I misgendered them, I just went “hes a good kid…sorry, shes a good kid” and that was that.


  • He dropped out of the re-election bid because he had a “senior moment” in the debate - that’s not full blown senility, but it’s enough to sway plenty of people who are deciding who gets their finger on the launch button for WWIII.

    Because he wasnt 100% perfect. This is just the standard double standard. Trump spends the whole time shitting himself on stage, and Biden isnt 100% perfect and now people are crying about him.

    The only way people thought Clinton was a problem is if they started thinking he was a problem because they had already started drinking the cool-aid