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Cake day: June 11th, 2025

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  • As a buttologist I’m open for the angelic interpretation too. For example in Hieronymus Bosch’s ‘The Garden of Earthly Delights’, we see butts that are clearly presented to the viewer, just like we do in his ‘Hell’. That’s the dual nature of butts, a divine delight, but also, on a bad day, a source of foulness.


  • I not an expert in this, but I work with patients who often need help calming down. In the beginning I tried to say a lot of things, offering a different perspective or trying to fix a problem. But now I just try to be there and listen. And not try to fill the silence. Sometimes a calming hand on the shoulder helps, sometimes not. Affirm the feeling and don’t argue facts. Last week a patient was upset because she was hallucinating an injured angry dog outside. Instead of telling her she’s wrong, I can only say that I myself cannot see a dog, but it sounds scary, and that she’s safe here. Another patient said she wanted to die. I think I just said “is that how you feel?” and so but the important part is to be there, just being, without rushing, letting someone feel seen and heard.