• TribblesBestFriend@startrek.website
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    14 days ago

    Ok I’ll bite before downvoting

    No you don’t wish that, you’re idealizing in situations without grasping it’s inherent complexity.

    Racism, even good racism, is always bad. In this particular context : what would happen if someday you have to be a tough and independent woman ? How the man of your dreams will react if you stop conforming to his impossible idea of woman hood ? The answer is always badly

    And why are you how you are ? Why don’t you project a trade wife exterior for the submissiveness desire ? Because it’s a life fucking awful and unrealistic

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      14 days ago

      no, you can’t tell me what I want and what I don’t. It’s better to be desired than not.

      • Barbecue Cowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        14 days ago

        You’re always allowed to feel what you feel and want you want. This is about what’s healthy and what is likely to actually work out for most people.