Forgive me if this is in poor taste or offensive, I will love my daughter regardless. Technically, my daughter is 25% Hispanic/Latina (Cuban) and 75% white.

My husband, the “mother” of the child (he’s trans but he birthed her) is white for sure, whereas I’m half-white and half-Cuban with a mom who had German parents and a Dad who came from Cuba to the USA as a child.

We were going to name her Violeta, partially to honor her Latina roots, but people preferred the English Violet so we named her Violet.

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    14 days ago

    Or decide on her own later. My mom is a korean immigrant but wanted me to identify as white like my father . Now i identify as both.