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Shared hobbies are your best bet. Either find a way to make your existing hobbies social, or get a new hobby you can do with people.

You can also try events at your local bars or meeting people at work, but both of those have serious drawbacks.

And if you are looking for people to date, the vast majority of options you have these days are online. You can try hooking up with strangers at a bar or meeting someone while engaging in a social activity, but statistically a tiny percentage of couple meet that way these days.

People spending that much on a car have no one but themselves to blame. Even on a 36mo loan, you can get several perfectly nice models brand new for half that. Less if you’re okay with a subcompact.

How YOU doin?

My building is on an old chiller system, so my AC is off ~5 months out of the year. My windows are open the entire time, and I usually have fans set up too to try and keep things cool.

When my AC is on, absolutely never. It is hot here like 7 months out of the year.

I’m on my phone, but most of that is a shell around the actual pressure vessel for aesthetic reasons.

The pressure vessel where the people sit is inside that and is likely in pretty bad shape.