• TribblesBestFriend@startrek.website
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    11 days ago

    There’s a belief that Asian women are more submissive, which is partly true. There’s cultural factors that could make asian women look more submissive but since they are intelligent women they can see past that.

    Now western man have cultural beliefs that Asian women are supposed to be submissive also and this tint their views on them

    TL; DR it’s just racism

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        11 days ago

        Ok I’ll bite before downvoting

        No you don’t wish that, you’re idealizing in situations without grasping it’s inherent complexity.

        Racism, even good racism, is always bad. In this particular context : what would happen if someday you have to be a tough and independent woman ? How the man of your dreams will react if you stop conforming to his impossible idea of woman hood ? The answer is always badly

        And why are you how you are ? Why don’t you project a trade wife exterior for the submissiveness desire ? Because it’s a life fucking awful and unrealistic

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          11 days ago

          no, you can’t tell me what I want and what I don’t. It’s better to be desired than not.

          • Barbecue Cowboy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            11 days ago

            You’re always allowed to feel what you feel and want you want. This is about what’s healthy and what is likely to actually work out for most people.

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        11 days ago

        Im gonna go out on a limb and say a really high percentage of the people who are deciding who to be with based on racism and ease of subjugation are likely pretty terrible people.

        Assuming your profile picture is you, for a similar experience you could find a non white guy whos into race play and they’ll fetishize you for your skin color and look right past everything you actually like about yourself. I don’t recommended it though.