Just toying with the idea here. I am thinking about proposing in the next year and I never expected I would be in this position.

My sister was just proposed to and dude must have spent like 10 grand on the ring. I think she feels like he spent too much. It looks like the friggin thing weighs her whole hand down.

Also do you think it is misogynist to ask the lady’s dad for permission?

  • KokusnussRitter@discuss.tchncs.de
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    3 months ago

    10k on a ring? Holy!

    I think this is something worth discussing with your s.o. Maybe they agree about not wanting to spend a whole lot. Maybe it is really important to them.

    Maybe they don’t want a ring at all.

    And if it’s mysogonistic to ask for the fathers opinion? Yes. Yes it is. Men should not have this power over their daughters decisions.