I’m turning into one, but I don’t know why people say incels have it wrong about race? Statistics do say white guys get picked the most. Asian women and hispanic women statistically date white men the most? Just tell me?
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What stats? Share your sources.
Inceldom is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Why do you want to listen to a bunch of whiny losers pretending it’s not their gross attitude and inability to take responsibility for their own lives that makes them undatable?
You asked this yesterday. People gave you answers.
You would not do well in the movie Groundhog Day.
There’s no need to be rude.
Incels are malignant sexist assholes. If you don’t understand how wrong that is, I can’t help you.
I really don’t know much about incel philosophy and I have never encountered statistics about who asian and hispanic women date. It sounds more like sterotyping. White guys like asian chicks. black guys like white chicks. whatever. people are people so…
Many of the problems they identify are real. But recognizing there is a problem doesn’t mean you know the cause or solution to it. That’s were they are frequently go wrong.
The general incel idea “The world is unfairly rigged against me, so I’m justified in lying and cheating to get what I want” is what’s primarily problematic.
This account and your previous one keep claiming that statistic yet you never provide it which makes people think you blindly accept blatantly sexist anecdotes as facts. Assuming your stats are real, look at the actual data. Who was questioned, where were they questioned, what inherent cultural bias exist in those regions.
Picked for beach volleyball?
IDK what stats you’re referencing but getting a date is possible.
First off you have to ditch the misogyny, most women can smell that miles away and will flag it with their friends and community.
Second, no one owes you anything, relationships take effort and investment from both parties. This means listening, actually carrying and investing time in your partner.
None of this happens until you leave to the house and do something. Join a rec League, play boardgames at game room, do trivia nights, sing karaoke.
Tldr if you want to meet women, you have to go out and meet women and you have to not be a misogynist patriarchal smelly s***.
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Clarification: What definition of incel are you using? Are you strictly using the definition as “One who can not find a partner despite wanting to” or are you using a different definition
If it’s strictly that definition there isn’t anything wrong with it. It’s when someone in that position starts blaming the other parties for their position that makes it become an issue. I.E Racism, sexism, etc
In my opinion, incels are in a similar boat to furries, just being that designation doesn’t make it wrong, however the actions you do while in that designation do. As a result, the designation as a whole has a black mark.
It’s completely fair to hate that you can’t find an SO and blame yourself, it isn’t fair to hate that you can’t find an SO and to blame others for it. The only time I would argue the counterpart is fair is if someone is actually smearing your image, but that isn’t what is happening with the incel stereotype. The incel stereotype is blaming others for liking other characteristics (usually ones that you don’t have [and yes that can include self describing yourself as an incel]), which is entitled/extremely selfish as a trait.
However if your definition is the stereotype definition of incel, and you can’t see whats wrong with the above… I don’t think anything anyone can say here is going to be able to change anything.
Are you going to keep posting the same question every day until you get the answers you want to hear?
