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Cake day: November 21st, 2025

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  • My situation is similar.

    My partner just treats me so poorly I’ve long since lost a romantic attachment to her.

    However, we have 2 young children, and my partners employment prospects aren’t great. We can’t afford 2 houses. As in we would share custody and i would pay her whatever was required, but no matter how you slice it the same income has to pay for 2 houses instead of one.

    For the time being i just have to carry on.

    Yes, my kids dont see a “happy loving relationship” but they dont really see an abusive one, just a miserable one maybe.

    IDK if we’re super “successful” co-parents but we are at least an effective team i think.