Dang did not know this would hit this many people.
I would say truly good word usage should go unnoticed. If the fact that you’re using a lot of big words sticks out, that means you’re using too many.
I compliment people using good words, but that’s very subjective. Usually it’s an old fashioned or a bit unknown, but perfect for the situation. But the compliment would be something like: “first of all, good word, second… * Whatever the conversation was about*”
I’m also a fan of good names.
Because fluency in your native language is a basic human skill that should be a minimum for functional adulthood, maybe? Because it’s not my job to congratulate you for existing?
Damn. People want to be coddled on everything these days.
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True. I knew a guy who would use bigly words and would end up confusing people. But then i learnt a few bigly words at his expense that i use … in moderation if I may add
I complimented my doctor the other day for an interesting word choice.
He blushed.
Cool dude too
In case anyone was wondering, that interesting word choice was “rectal laceration”.
Because people who use hyper specific words are either trying to make themselves look smart, or are using them in a specific context where saying ‘good job on knowing a common word in this area of knowledge’ is kinda patronising.
Would you congratulate your kid on saying turn ‘the spigot off’ instead of saying ‘turn the tap off’ in the kitchen? You shouldn’t, because a spigot is an outdoor thing.
I just love the correct use of the English language. That is why it is a big pet peeve of mine on the misuse of the word fuck. I believe if you can use curse words correctly at any age then they should use them. But chastise children and tell them that is not how you use that word and show them how to use it correctly. But adults I just got to the point no one respects language anymore. I just try to make it a point of pointing it out. Like someone fixing your car and their reciting poetry like a song stuck in their head. And compliment them on doing it. My opinion is we have a whole freaking world who say’s why. Why are you doing this? Why are you doing that? and so forth. Instead of say hey why not and offer assistance in the en devour
I just love the correct use of the English language.
ok, you asked for it :)
How come people don’t compliment other people on great word usage? If someone
useuses the wordletslet’s say, ecclesiastical or something like that, they do not get complimented it shows they respect English.(I can’t quite fix the last part, “it shows they respect English”…)
I never said I was a master of it or grammar. Grammar I suck at but sometimes type it just for engagement. But we compliment people on everything else. Just kind of seems we need language warriors. And if I use a word incoherently ;) then I would like to be called out on it. As long as it is an educated calling out.
Also, “off” goes after “the,” in your example.
Because that is patronising.
So if i say to you good word usage in patronizing but say it non sarcastically and compliment you saying you don’t hear it used correctly anymore. Isn’t that complementing them on their intelligence. ?
No one complimentsyou on your big words because no one likes you.
I don’t really care for compliments tbh but to each their own. But it has become so rare now a days with the dumbing down of society people need a reminder once in a while you notice their intellect.
Doc Savage’s pulp adventures inspired Superman, Indiana Jones, and Batman. One of his assistants was Johnny, who loved using polysyllables. “I’ll be superamalgamated!” was his favorite exclamation.
Cartoon legend Jack Kirby created The Newsboy Legion. One of the members was ‘Big Words,’ who tried to live up to his name.
Fats Waller was a singer/song writer. In his comic, “You’re Feets Too Big” he explained that ‘your pedal extremities are too obnoxious.’
These days, any scientific explanation in fiction is apt to be followed by “slower and in English.”
Yeah, I’m a word nerd, but a vocabulary isn’t inherently about intellect. It’s about putting the effort in, because even people with severe learning disorders can still amass l arge vocabularies. Now, using them appropriately rather than just collecting them does take a little more effort and thought, but it’s also not some kind of feat of genius. Anyone with reasonable capacity can use fancy words appropriately.
Don’t get me wrong, I fucking despise people that shit on the sheer joy that language can be. We don’t have to limit ourselves to “double plus” thinking or speech, and shouldn’t. And anyone trying to act like having a varied and sizable vocabulary is some kind of flaw can suck the peanuts out of my shit (or whatever varieties of legumes they prefer from my feces, if they feel so inclined).
But the only thing vocabulary really indicates about a person is that they value their vocabulary.
the use of uncommon words is not a sign of intelligence, it just means you know more words
kind of like Malcom X reading the dictionary in prison?
Also all the intentional malapropisms and misspellings.
They do!
But it’s rare for multiple reasons.
First, both the listener and the speaker have to know the word, because otherwise there’s no reason to compliment it
Second, the listener (or reader, but I’m too lazy to type both every damn time) has to care about word usage, and it’s kinda niche.
Third, there’s a significant degree of anti-intellectual belief out in the world, so that segment is going to have the opposite response, and they’re prone to being obnoxious about it.
Fourth, giving compliments is not something everyone is good at, so there’s a segment that might appreciate it, but not know how to express it.
Fifth, a corollary to the fourth, it can feel awkward to give compliments, so it gets shoved avoided, which is partly due to sixth:
Sixth, as a culture, complimenting someone is a complicated social action. There’s all kinds of little unspoken rules around it, and that makes a lot of people just nope out entirely.
But if you hang around people that enjoy word play and vocabulary, you’ll see a lot more compliments :)
I hate it when people stop a conversation to talk about a word I used. It doesn’t land as a complement.
Not as a complement to what you were saying, but did it land as a compliment?
I suppose a product of growing up with anti-intellectualism is that it seems threatening when someone stops everything and turns everyone’s attention to a word that you just used without conceit.
I had a friend who would drop a sing-songy “Word point!” after a great word. It was nice because it was a quick interjection that acknowledged the word without derailing the conversation.
Because 9 times out of 10, using big words doesn’t make you sound smart; it makes you sound pretentious.
They’re often used incorrectly as direct synonyms too, with no nuance as to the subtle differences between them
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I think people do sometimes. More so in writing, than in conversation. But, it’s too meta. If you’re just trying to have a conversation and someone interrupts you to say, “Hey, great use of that word!”, that’s probably not what you were trying to convey and is distracting. I suggest saving that for word games.
One thing you could do is to ask what a word means. Most people are happy to explain that, and would take it as a compliment of sorts, without getting miffed.
People are more likely to get compliments on proper word play than simply being able to use a thesaurus and dictionary.
There’s nothing wrong with using “ecclesiastical” when it’s the right word. The problem starts when every sentence arrives dressed for high mass.
;)
I just meant out of the blue in a conversation. Like I would say, “good word usage” on said word than give my continuation of the conversation.
Because using a big word alone isn’t good word usage.
But you didn’t compliment my clever wordplay, so poop on you!
No offense mate I kind of treat it like a parlor trick. But on the net. I do not want to catch a shit storm because apparently I am popular or infamous.
No one knows who you are in life or on the internet. No one is impressed by your memorized words.
