And what’s the origin of that phrase?

And yes I am an old geezer, a slow one too.

  • gwl [he/him]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    Some apps allow you to label users, such as with “dodgy” or “asshole” or whatever

    And folks often use that to keep tabs on folks they see around often that they’re not certain about, where they’re like “well, the other time I interacted they were chill, maybe just a bad day?”

    So the phrase is effectively saying “I’m done giving you the benefit of the doubt, I will no longer interact with you”

  • bitjunkie@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Tagging someone so you know what kind of bullshit they’re on vs. blocking so you don’t see their bullshit at all.

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    3 months ago

    Personally, I tend to give people the benefit of the doubt. If they’re rude, I give them an orange or red coloured tag. Everyone has bad days, after all. But if I see they already have a red coloured tag, I just block them instead. It goes the other way too though, kindness puts you closer towards green.

    I think many people have a system like this. It’s a small community, often it’s the same repeat troublemakers being caustic. I can’t speak to how others use the tags, though.

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      3 months ago

      Very similar process here. I’ve yet to block anyone as far as I remember, but I see red tags, I know to scroll past and ignore. Or if I see it in a thread I’m reading, I know not to engage if it’s bad faith or clearly just unpleasant, even if I have to read it to understand what follows. Wherever I see green or blue, I’ll stop and read even if it seems uninteresting, because those are the people that have proven insightful and empathetic or whatever else it was that made me tag. I usually write the description too in the tags.

      Perhaps worth noting though, I’m not sure these tags are a built in lemmy or equivalent feature, or rather a client thing. I use voyager if someone’s interested.

  • Krusty@quokk.au
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    3 months ago

    A tag is a user-defined attribute linked to your username. This may also include tracking how many times they up and down vote your posts/comments and aggregate displayed as a single number with a plus or minus sign, depending on which way it’s going.

    Think of it like a hashtag. But just for you, defined by only them.

    Maybe it’s “dumbass, racist, transphobic -11” or “sweetheart, inspirational, dogpics +9000”

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    3 months ago

    How can you tag users ? I don’t think Voyager lets me do that, at least I haven’t found

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      3 months ago

      I have yet to see anyone complain about being blocked, reviewed the evidence, and agreed with the complainer. I’m sure it happens, but the pattern seems strong.

      I mean, I don’t go hang out at .ml because I’d probably get blocked there so I don’t go. They don’t want me and I don’t want them. I don’t see a problem there.

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    3 months ago

    Some clients for social media allow you to add tags to other users. Basically just a mark only you can see. That way if you encounter them again you know who you’re dealing with. Generally used negatively, to mark people you don’t like. Upgrading to blocked just means converting that into a full software block for whatever platform. Generally meaning you won’t see that user and they won’t see you again.

      • NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip
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        3 months ago

        I just do neither. I don’t get blocking people. Been online since bbs days and it just never seems worthwhile. More effort when. It’s easier to just scroll on by and ignore.

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          3 months ago

          I am on Summit, how was I tagged as scary troll 😂 ?

          I think it would be a useful feature

          But it is PRIVATE right? Like only I can see it, right?

          I think.l it is a nice feature for when I befriend someone here and I can add a tag explaining how we became friends. I have MCI, so the memory is fried (KFB)

            • mountainRadish@lemmy.worldOP
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              3 months ago

              Woooww, lemmy is awesome!!!

              Your tag is Question Killer, 'cause you killed my question with an answer

              Edit: I also just poopoopeepee

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                3 months ago

                Woooww, lemmy is awesome!!!

                This is not a Lemmy feature, it is an app feature. It is also available in piefed, and many piefed apps.

              • Assassassin@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                3 months ago

                Lol thanks. I’m more of a troll troller most of the time. You’ll typically find me replying to the most downvotes comment in a thread, telling them why they are dumb and shouldn’t comment. I do try to be helpful occasionally though.

                • mountainRadish@lemmy.worldOP
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                  3 months ago

                  So I sound dumb and a troll? Or are you sarcastic?

                  Also, this tag feature seems to be not related to Lemmy but rather Summit.

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        3 months ago

        Another app that allows tagging users is Interstellar. The neat thing with Interstellar is it has built in comments consolidation with posts that are cross-posted or are link posts with the same link. Pretty neat because even on a piefed based instance consolidation doesn’t work if you’re not using the web UI.

      • eurodyne@piefed.world
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        3 months ago

        Piefed supports tagging as part of the platform. It runs as part of Lemmy, but the instances use a different software like mbin does